Showing posts with label Emunah. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Emunah. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Would You Trust the Tooth Fairy?

Imagine for a moment that you needed to hire someone to do an important job, like a financial advisor or a babysitter for your little one.  Would you trust the Tooth Fairy to do the job?

Now, you are probably saying to yourself, “That is very silly!  The Tooth Fairy does not even exist!”  It would surely be foolish to trust someone fictitious with any task, let alone such an important one!

This is why Emunah, knowledge of Hashem’s existence, is such a crucial prerequisite to Bitachon (see Bitachon: What it isn’t, What it is for a definition of Bitachon).  If I am going to trust that everything Hashem’s does is for a reason and is in my best interest, I had better be convinced of His existence and involvement in this world!

What if I don’t know Hashem?

This leads us to a big problem: many people are not so sure that God really exists.  Even if you think that God probably exists, and even live your life accordingly, you may still harbor doubts, often or occasionally.  You may feel pretty certain that God created and runs the world, but do not live your daily life with that constant awareness.

The good news is that there are specific things you can do to increase your belief in and awareness of God.

  • Look at nature

    When you watch a breathtaking sunset or view a stunning mountain range, it is impossible to imagine that these things are the product of chance rather than design.  Just as you would think it ludicrous for a Shakespeare novel or  Beethoven symphony to have emerged accidentally on its own, it is crazy to believe that this amazing world is without a Creator.

    I still remember the chemistry class I took in college.  I watched the teacher sketch on the board how the different elements combine, demonstrating how everything on this earth works together to make all things that we need. I felt incredibly awed by the wondrous complexity and detail that comprises all that we take so for granted.

  • Think about the human body

    The human body is really just another wonder of nature.  But I list this separately because when you think about all the intricate systems that are needed for our bodies to function, you will realize that surely we were created with tremendous care, and did not just evolve by chance.

    Imagine what would go into creating a robot that mimicks a human being and all of its functions!  What a wondrous machine it would be that could see, hear, speak, and feel!  Certainly it would take careful design and planning!  And what amazing machines are the bodies we sometimes take for granted, which even have souls in them!

    After birth, I marvel at the tiny little infant that was inside me just moments before.  And sometimes I look at a grown person and think, “Wow, that person was once a tiny creature inside of his mother!”

    Incredible!

  • See God when things are going well

    Make it a habit to recognize that God is behind everything that happens to you.  When you make all the green lights, notice that God let things go your way.  If the results of a test were favorable, realize that God decided it should be so.  When the kids play nicely instead of fighting, view it as a gift from Hashem.

  • Talk to Hashem

    Whether you choose to engage in traditional prayer or informal conversation with God, you will increase your awareness that He is right there with you all the time.  Ask Hashem to help you (“Please help me find my toddler’s other shoe”), and remember to thank Him when He helps you out (“Thanks for getting the stain out of my favorite outfit!”).

Don’t trust the Tooth Fairy, she isn’t really there!  Look for God; you will see Him everywhere.

Post a comment to share how you increase your awareness of Hashem, where you find Him in everyday life, or how you like to connect with God!

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Monday, June 25, 2012

Bitachon: What it isn't, What it is

Trust in God

Literally, the Hebrew word Bitachon means trust or security.
When used in Jewish philosophy, Bitachon refers specifically to trust in Hashem.

There is often confusion regarding this concept.

Common misconceptions about Bitachon:

  • Bitachon means believing in Hashem (false)

    The correct term to refer to belief in God is Emunah. Indeed, Emunah, the belief that God exists, is essential to attaining trust in Hashem.
    But Emunah, belief, and Bitachon, trust, are two distinct concepts.  (I hope to elaborate more on Emunah in another post).

  • If you trust in Hashem, then everything will be okay

    I guess this one depends on your definition of okay.  If okay means that everything will turn out the way you want it to, then this statement is false.   If okay means that whatever God does is okay with you, then maybe you’re onto something …

  • Don’t worry, God will take care of it

    Trust in God is not an excuse to be lazy.   You don’t need to worry, but you do need to make a reasonable effort.

All for the Best

What Bitachon really means is that Hashem knows what is best for me, and will only do what is in my best interest.

Admittedly, sometimes this may be in conflict with what I think is best for me.   Bitachon tells me that I need to trust that God knows better.  Nothing happens by chance.

Even when I see Bad with my own eyes, it is really Good dressed up in disguise!

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